Reason 2: You’re Not Taking Full Ownership Of Your Experience
This one is easy to understand, but not very easy to implement. The law of attraction tells us that everything is attraction. Everything is attraction, attraction, attraction. There is no law of assertion meaning there can never be something in your experience or even proximity that does not match at some level a part of what you are radiating.
This is annoying because that means every single person in your life that annoys you, harms you, or offends you is because you two are a vibrational match. Yikes! Trust me, a big pill to swallow, I know.
So when your spouse is being mean or your child is disrespectful, it’s because you’re bringing this aspect out of them. Their disrespectfulness matches your insecurities or their meanness matches your lack of self worth. It could be a variety of things but vibrations are on a spectrum and similar vibrations like to hang out together. Don’t you notice how children will behave differently with different people? Or how sweet and kind your spouse and children are to strangers?
Every person (just like every thing) is also a combination of what is wanted and the absence of it, so the question is whether you are more of a vibrational match to their wanted side or unwanted side. This is true for you, too. We’ve all had moments when we were nasty to someone or misbehaved in some inexplicable way. On the other hand, you have those encounters with people that propel you to rise to be the best version of yourself because it’s what they expect from you. They believe in you. They love you unconditionally.
Sometimes even certain environments make us behave differently, you kind of feel the energy and it makes you feel elegant, free-spirited or suspicious. But what’s interesting is that not everyone will feel the way you feel in those environments because you’re actually just resonating to the vibration that matches you in that moment even though you think you’re responding to the environment itself.
This is true for experiences like stubbing your toe, getting in a fender bender, or falling in love. You match the vibration of the wanted or unwanted experience in that moment.
In essence, I’m explaining what the law of attraction looks like in your day to day life because this deeper understanding is what people miss. I do it, too. I notice it frequently with my interactions with my spouse only because he’s very sensitive to my vibration. We can get into an argument and then I start to remind myself that I control my experience, I can be happy, and I don’t need conditions to be perfect, and every time I do the vibrational work, in that second things change. He comes to check-in or help or hug. When I don’t do the work, it gets worse until I do which can last days. The subject of the argument is irrelevant to the intensity. My relationship is my immediate proof that my vibration dictates my experience. I take full ownership of how my relationship unfolds now because it’s about my vibration and what I’m attracting from my partner. Period.
Begin to test this by noticing how you felt and what happened. When I first started doing this, I would lie to myself when I knew I was off, but the law of attraction is consistent and will still show you how you feel (what you are vibrating) even if you don’t want to admit it. If you’re off, your day is off. When you choose to be happy and be grateful, the ideas flow and people flow and the cashier is sweet to you that day. Pay attention and you’ll see the consistency of this.
You can also pay attention to what happened and then evaluate how you felt, honestly. Then, no matter what happens – good or bad – say “I did that. I am a powerful creator, and I did that.”
I’ve started laughing now when I spill my coffee or hit my head because I think the universe just wants to let me know how I am doing vibrationally ASAP before anything more serious manifests. So after I say “dammit!”, I tell the universe thank you and remind myself that I must watch my vibration because I am a powerful creator.
But it’s so much more fun (and necessary) when you have a pleasant moment, when you choose to change your vibration, and the person changes, the situation turns around, you have a good time, you get the good news, things feel like they’re effortlessly falling into place, and then you say, “I did that! I’m a powerful creator.”
Reason 3: You Have Split Energy (Page 3)
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